Comparing yourself to others leads to failure. Failure in yourself, failure in your confidence, failure of dreams and security. I am aware that, in this age of social media there are many opportunities to compare yourself to others.... Why don’t my eyes sparkle? Why doesn’t my girlfriend have those curves, why doesn’t my boyfriend have muscles like they do? Why do they make more money than I do? Why, why, why? But, do you know no one compares to you, and that no two people are the same. No one has your DNA, no one has your finger prints, no one has your smile. No one is you. Think about it... we’re all designed differently; an original masterpiece. Therefore, I implore you to stop comparing yourself to others. Carry out your plans, and your business like a boss...the way you, and only you can, and was meant to do. I promise that, you will get there ... slow and steady, but only if you’re willing to stop comparing your behind the scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel!! Do you, and let them do them!!!
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So, you think you didn’t have a great start at life. You didn’t do things that were expected of you. You were rebellious, you knew everything there was to know about anything, and of course with that you’ve made many mistakes. Now what? You just got out of jail...now what? Your marriage didn’t work out... now what? The money you thought you could easily replace is now needed for something important, and you don’t have it.... now what? Whatever your circumstance or situation; do you give up? There are a few questions you must give an answer to concerning the story of your life. If you are struggling with the mistakes of the past... the mistakes you made yesteryear, yesterday or the day before... let it all go. Your story is not over. You, my friend can move forward.. you can rewrite your story... you can start again!
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Most of us are people pleasers. On the contrary, not because we want to be; but because it is ingrained in us. We, do not want to disappoint those we deem important in our lives.... we, would rather betray ourselves just to please others. So, how do we move pass betraying ourselves? Simple, we follow our hearts. If someone ask or suggest something to you, and you disagree or say no, and feel bad about it chances are you’re displaying symptoms of being a people pleaser (only if it doesn’t feel good). Therefore, the remedy should be to always follow your heart. If your heart says no... go with that... if it makes your heart happy... go with that... if it’s your heart’s desire... go with that.... whatever makes your heart glad; anything safe and does not cause physical harm to others... go with it. Remember, you have one life... live it with a cheerful heart!
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Valuing others begin with you. In order to value others you must first value yourself. How you love you, will reflect in how you love others. Therefore, if you can love yourself, be gentle with yourself, affirm yourself, and give yourself time to grow into the person you were meant to be; despite what others think... I believe your light will shine bright, and affect those around you. Start now, practice (daily) valuing yourself, and in turn the love you show yourself will exude out of you, and you will most likely become a rockstar at valuing others!
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I’m thinking today, about how little time some of us take out of our schedule to value people I.e. someone we may not know, our friends, a family member, or love ones. It’s amazing how we sometimes take each other for granted. We, are often under the impression that the people we love and value will be around forever. Sometimes, we go weeks without speaking to or calling our families or friends. Think about it...how often do you tell your family or friends I love you, I miss you, I’m thinking of you, or I’m dropping everything and coming to see you? We take for granted time and lifespan. Change that today.. tell someone you love them and that you’re thinking of them. Nothing is guaranteed. Value those you love... Do it now!!! I love you
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